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To assess your Quality Listening skills, answer "YES" or "NO" to the following questions: |
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1. I am consciously aware of my listening strategy in every conversation. |
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2. People often tell me they feel I am not listening to them. |
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3. I get impatient in conversations and finish other people's senternces. |
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4. I create eye contact when I am listening. |
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5. I have mastered the art of appearing to listen when I am not listening at all. |
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6. People often compliment me on my listening skills. |
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7. When I am unable to commit my full attention to another person, I let that person know that I am distracted. |
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8. People often say "You are not listening to me!" |
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9. I listen better individually with people than when I am part of a group. |
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10. I ask for clarification when required in my conversations. |
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11. When someone is speaking to me I generally focus on paying attention to them. |
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12. I have mastered the art of never missing a beat as I tune in and out of a conversation. |
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13. I always remember the names of people when I meet them for the first time. |
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14. I pay more attention to information if I perceive I will be tested or required to repeat the information later. |
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15. I create a concerted effort to demonstrate my interest through my body language. |
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16. When I hear something I disagree with or want to add to, I get hung up on that point and stop paying attention. |
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17. I am one of those people who believes I remember every detail of what was said. |
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18. I have created some major misunderstandings by not listening. |
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19. I am willing to change my opinions and beliefs after receiving someone else's thoughts based on their experiences. |
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20. My listening skills have improved in the last 5 years. |